Potty Training Update.

Remember when I started potty training Sky? Well, so far so good.

When he feels the urge to poo, he would tell a grown-up and ask help in removing his diaper and undergarments. And then he would RUN to his stack of books and grabs one BEFORE plopping in his beloved potty. :D

Doing his number two is not a problem… Sky doing his number one IS!

He only likes to pee when he’s NOT WEARING ANYTHING. So most of the time now, he runs around the house with a big shirt on and NO underpants when he uses the potty to do his number one. When he does where a diaper or underpants – he REFUSES to use the potty at all.

OH well, I never thought I would experience growing pains as a parent! :) Have a great weekend people! And thanks for always dropping by…

Missing Blogging.

I have been getting emails and text messages from close friends and relatives – telling me that they’re missing my “stories” and family photos. I have to tell you that I’ve been missing plopping in front of my computer at the end of the day and writing about the extraordinary moments that we experience on a daily basis.

There is so much story to tell despite my temporary absence from the web. Aside from that, I haven’t been running as well. My tummy is getting noticeably plump around my waist as a result. Nevertheless, I am extremely happy to be this busy.

Aside from the little things that go around everyday, unexpected miracles have been happening along the way. And I have been fortunate enough to be considered as a “miracle” to a good friend as well.

I do hope to go back in my regularly scheduled programming as soon as the tide settles. Until then, do continue to drop by and see how life goes around here. :D

DSCN4448~ This was taken during cousin Gaby’s 6th birthday last June 30 ~

Changes.

I had to give up The Fit Mommy blog indefinitely. But I will relaunch it again by the last quarter (or even earlier) of this year with a NEW NAME and CONCEPT. As for now, you can still read back on my old posts over at The Fit Mommy blog here.

Last Tuesday, I had a chance to see more of my high school classmates. There were 16 of us that got together that night. And as usual, the chattering and the photo taking sessions was non-stop. It was a night of catching up and 16 long lost years.

The get-together started a bit early for me. I met up with Mel and Nora over at Trinoma at around 5:30PM and had a quick chat and romp around the mall before I drove the three of us at Congo Grille over at El Pueblo in the heart of Ortigas center.

Malou and Aileen A. was already there when we arrived. Lyla was there too, but she was having dinner with a good friend and told us she’ll join us later.

And then one by one, Graceans came in – ALWAYS with a LOUD welcome from people already there. Most of us looked a bit different, perhaps as an evolution 16 years can a person make. :D Except for Rose, who will ALWAYS look like a sixth grader, mind you she already has two beautiful daughters.

Because there was a LOT of us compared to the last two times I went out with my batchmates. It was quite difficult to go around and talk to each of them. However, I was pleasantly surprised how Eden ( the hot babe in a tube) opened up to us. We weren’t particularly close in high school. But, I liked her openness.

Abigail, was a fellow Company Commander back in our CAT days. She was still as quiet and as observant as before. I learned a lot from her, with regard to how Montessori method classes are different from Traditional schools. I was quite enlightened and now I’m thinking of enrolling Sky to a Montessori school after my Physical Therapy board exams.

Vulnerable as I am now, I opened up to Michelle too. Her advice echoes those of my sisters. I just have one thing to say: hearing the truth from someone objectively feels extremely raw. The truth may hurt, but at least it’s the truth.☝ And I appreciate her advice. :)

After our noisy dinner over at Congo Grille (their staff must’ve been RELIEVED when we asked for the bill), Aileen L. invited as over at Taboo @ Home Depot, Ortigas Center. Where her husband usually hangs out and SINGS! Since, I am not familiar with bands (except for Hi-5 :) ). Her husband happens to be the lead singer for a local band called “Freestyle”. But, he wasn’t singing that night :( However, Nora had a chance to get up on stage and was serenaded that night. It really wasn’t her birthday, but what the heck – we told the singer it was her birthday… And feisty girl that she is – she went up on stage on cue :D

I had to leave early than usual that night. I didn’t mind because I’m pretty sure we’ll meet up again next month. For the past 16 years we’ve all been through pleasant and unpleasant times, but what’s important is how we all change for the better through it.

Until the next one!

Araw ni Papa.

Ang PAPA namin…

… ay ubod ng KULIT.

… ay MALAKAS ang BOSES dahil medyo bingi ang kaliwang tenga niya.

… ay may kakambal na babae. (na medyo bulag naman ang kaliwang mata – acquired nung pagka-panganak nila)

… ay masipag mag-hanap buhay. 

… ay mahilig KUMAIN, lalo na ng lechon.

… ay MATIGAS ang ULO dahil laging may RASON kapag sinasabihan namin na huminay-hinay sa pagkain ng lechon kawali at chicharon.

… ay mahilig mag-sabi ng JOKES na PAULIT-ULIT… PAULIT-ULIT… PAULIT-ULIT…

… ay mas sanay sa wikang TAGALOG at KAPAMPANGAN.. Minsan lang  siya mag-INGLES. Buti na lang, magaling mag-english ang ASAWA niya. Hindi sila nawawala kapag naga-abroad sila… Pero nawala na sila dati pero TUWANG-TUWA ang MAG-ASAWA nung maligaw sila sa RED LIGHT DISTRICT ng AMSTERDAM.

… ang unang tanong niya kapag labas namin ng bahay or hotel (kapag nasa abroad kami) ay “SAAN TAYO KAKAIN?”

… ay laging hinahalikan ang NANAY ko kapag alis niya ng bahay at kapag uwi din niya. LIPS to LIPS lagi.

… ay minsan MADRAMA. :D

… ay laging dumadating kapag nasisiraan ako ng kotse nung ako ay gumi-gimik nung college. KAHIT MADALING ARAW NA at may PASOK pa siya kinabukasan.

… ay lagi kaming pinapagalitan kapag may nanliligaw sa aming mga anak niyang babae nung nag-aaral pa kami.

… ay hindi mahilig mag-basa. KAHIT INSTRUCTION MANUAL ng APPLIANCE – HINDI NIYA BINABASA… Kaya minsan – SIRA ang bagong biling relo/ blender/ etc…

… ay laging may “AH! AH! AH!” sa huli ng mga statements niya… Halimbawa : “Gigi, tawagan mo nga si (kung sino man), AH?!” Kapag hindi ka sumagot ng OO or malamang hindi ka niya narinig, magsasabi siya ng “AH?!” hangga’t marinig na niya na UM-OO ka.

… ay MAHAL na MAHAL namin at MAHAL din niya kaming LAHAT. :D

Superman!

Hay! Enough of the drama! :) On a lighter note, Sky has been wearing  his Superman pajamas for three nights in a row now. I never though he would be the type to be “picky” with his clothes… Boy was I wrong! 

After I gave him a bath the other night and dress him in his flimsy, cotton white pajamas – HE REFUSED TO WEAR IT and kept chanting “Superman Mah-mee, I want my Superman Puh-JA-MAHSSS… Tan-ta-ta-TAN!!!”… 

And I had to go grab it from the laundry after just being washed in the morning! 

After donning it on, he started “flying” around the room. And the photo above was my only decent shot of him. And the most love pajama is getting smaller everyday. I need to find new ones soon.

Unofficial…

But, it may all be official by the end of 2010.

I have been doing my best to keep it all together. You see, one of the things  that I asked D to do – before we go back home to him – is for him to just talk to my parents.

D only interacted with my folks and family for about 22 times since we got married. My parents like to give suggestions – which he interprets as “meddling”. I have been telling him countless of times – that’s just the way they are. But, they always respected my decisions – no matter what.

It’s been almost five months – and I’m still waiting for him to just make peace with my parents. I figured that – no matter how awful my folks are to him (if he thinks of them that way), they must have done something right for him to love me in the first place. Don’t you think?

He has visited us here for 3 times since February – but he only met up at the clubhouse of the village. And a couple of times – we just met up and spent a day or hours just pretending that nothing is wrong. I’ve been living a farce – how sad is that?

To be honest, I just want everything to work out for Sky. For him.

However, it’s been countless nights that I cry myself to sleep – hoping that everything will work out for us. I’m even crying my eyes out as I write this. I don’t know if it’s even wise that I just blurt it out in the open. I just haven’t been able to talk to anyone about this and I need a little space in my heart – or else, I’ll explode.

My apologies for my rant. Pray for me, that I pass my Physical Therapy exams this year. I need it so bad – for our future. My first steps in being an unofficial single parent….

Baclaran.

It was drizzling when my parents dropped me off the LRT station over at United Nations Avenue. They were on their way to the U.S. Embassy to renew Papa’s visa – and I went along for the ride from the house.

The digital clock on the platform read 5:58AM when I found a spot to wait for the oncoming train going to Baclaran. The place was still deserted – with only a handful of people waiting for the train. The air was damp and musky – and I breathed it all in. It felt good.

I got myself a Novena booklet before heading inside the church. I can’t believe how many people there are there – so early in the morning – to pray for their devotions to Our Lady of Perpetual Help

There was an ongoing mass when I came in, and I decided to say the Novena myself. And I found a small spot, amidst the sea of faithful Catholics. 

I don’t know if other people notice it. But, the energy reverberating inside the church was a bit overwhelming. After I prayed the Novena, I headed straight to the altar to say a short prayer and to take a picture of the Holy mother… After which, I wandered outside and looked around. The energy was also eminating outside.

I was looking for the candle lighting area, when I went inside the church again and found myself by the Confessional. Right then I decided to line up. An old man with a cane was behind me and an old lady carrying a rosary was in front of me. I looked at the other people in queue. And I realized – I was the youngest in the line. And I’m already 33.

It was 7:00AM when I headed back home. Saying a prayer and confession was a nice way to start that day. I’m definitely coming back next Wednesday again, rain or shine. :)

Squeezing in a break.

I seriously am getting too much headache from studying. It’s been 11 years since I graduated from college – getting my feet wet again is a bit daunting and exciting for me. Daunting – because of the new treatments in the Physical Therapy industry, and exciting – because I get to merge my love for athleticism with my studies. 

It was a nice break for me to spend a day and a half with my two men. It’s always a pleasure seeing them talk and play. It was sad, when D had to go to work… And I have to hit the books again to review… Sacrifices that we both have to make – but we’re pretty sure it’s going to be worth it. ❤

Blog Holiday.

Due to too much workload… I’ll be on a sort of “semi-blog holiday” for a couple of months or so… I’ll post every now and then if we’re up to something. :) Have a great day (or night) ahead of you! 

The week that was!

Hello world! Yes, I am still alive and kicking! My days were just packed last week with training, studying, teaching Sky, going on an impromptu Day trip to Subic… And yes, I celebrated my 33rd birthday last week too! 

D was busy with work and Sky and I have to stay here for that personal project-turned family goal until the end of the year to tie-up loose ends. Yes, we will be migrating somewhere in 2010 or whenever we decide – just as soon as everything is all ironed-out. 

Sky’s also done with summer school, and now I’m homeschooling him again. D and I are thinking of getting him a thrice-a-week prep class if we find a good school that offers one. We’ll see how that one goes. In the meantime, my days are jam-packed in the coming months with activities. I have to find a good balance for Sky and D. This year will be groundbreaking for the three of us.

Last Wednesday, my sister and I celebrated our birthday over at Subic with the kid’s. The day started promptly at 6:30AM with a leisurely drive to Subic via NCLEX and SCTEX. We were in Subic by 8:00AM and had a refreshing breakfast before heading off to Ocean Adventure. Where we spent the first half of the day watching a High Dive exhibition, a Sea Lion and a Dolphin show.

After which, we headed over to Tree Top Adventure to feed the adrenaline junkie in me. I was glad my sister and her family were “game” to something new for them. We all opted to do the “Superman” and I did the Australian style of rappelling. I’ve done this style and the “lizard” way,way back in 2002. So, it was nice getting that rush again. I’ll do the lizard rappel next time. I wasn’t feeling too confident with my leg strength that day.

I was so glad Sky was taking his nap, while I do my thing in the treetops. To cap off the week. I ran in the The Northface 20K trail run, which was held over at Sacobia, Clark, Pampanga. I’ll just let the photos do the talking, I’ll tell you the details of my trail adventure in my other blog within the week… Sorry for being so sporadic lately. I’ll do my best to tell you more stories in the coming days. Have a busy and happy week ahead!